English | February 23rd, 2021 | ISBN: 0593137515 | 320 pages | True EPUB | 1.52 MB
The fourteen essential conversations to have with your tween and early teenager to prepare them for the emotional, physical, and social challenges ahead, including scripts and advice to keep the communication going and stay connected during this critical developmental window.
"This book is a gift to parents and teenagers alike."-Lisa Damour, PhD, author of Untangled and Under Pressure
Trying to convince a middle schooler to listen to you can be exasperating. Indeed, it can feel like the best option is not to talk! But keeping kids safe-and prepared for all the s when you can't be the angel on their shoulder-is about having the right conversations at the right . From a brain growth and emotional readiness perspective, there is no better for this than their tween years, right up to when they enter high school.
Distilling Michelle Icard's decades of experience working with families, Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen focuses on big, thorny topics such as friendship, sexuality, impulsivity, and technology, as well as unexpected conversations about creativity, hygiene, money, privilege, and contributing to the family. Icard outlines a simple, memorable, and family-tested formula for the best approach to these essential talks, the BRIEF Model: B peacefully, Relate to your child, Interview to collect information, Echo what you're hearing, and give Feedback.
What phrases invite connection and which irritate kids or scare them off
The best places, s, and situations in which to initiate talks
How to keep kids interested, open, and engaged in conversation
How to exit these chats in a way that keeps kids wanting more
Like a Rosetta Stone for your tween's confounding language, Fourteen Talks by Age Fourteen is an essential communication guide to helping your child through the emotional, physical, and social challenges ahead and, ultimately, toward teenage success.